Ladies, I need your opinion about this man?

If he's a really nice guy and he's good to you it's ok to see hime. Just don't get serious like married, moving in together or anything like that until he gets off his but and does something for himself. Tell him that too, you guys will never get serious as long as he behaves this way and you won't wait forever, as bad as u want to be with him, you can't support him.