How do i get my scorpion man back?

im a scorpio woman. im a few years younger than him. i have a daughter and he has 2 children from a previous relationship. i was dating him for about 2 months. we broke up over arguments and confusions. i met him at work. im a show girl at a night club and hes a bouncer. i met him my second day of work and we hit it off instantly and exchanged numbers. we talked on the phone everyday for a month and ended up becoming intimate one time after about a month. he took me on dates several times and paid like a gentleman.held doors open. i felt like a queen. i didnt give in easy as he did beg. lol. a week after we had i told him i didnt wanna do that anymore unless we were exclusive. he tells me hes not ready for a serious relationship but then wen i was at his house he went through my cell phone looking through my texts and becoming jealous over me talking to other guys. i dont understand it. i feel like maybe hes scared to tell me what he really wants. he did jus recently like a couple months ago get out of a 8 year relationship with his baby mama who he lived with. im confused. he talks alot but is so secretive about his feelings and what he wants. well a couple weeks ago he ends up gettin fed up with me pressuring a relationship so he tells me hes done. i ended up crying and calling his phone a bunch of times...made a fool of myself.i told him how much i liked him and wanted his kids apart of my life and everything and he still doesnt care. how many girls are actually going to come into his life who are so accepting like me? not many! he hasnt called me since....i called me a week ago and he says hes over me. i ended up telling him im over him and seeing someone else....although im really not. he said he wishes me luck and hopes im happy with my new guy and that was the end of our convo. what can i do to rekindle things? do u think its repairable? ive seen relationships end way worse that rekindled. i need advice and opinions please! i want things to be the way they were. what can i do?!?!?! please help. thank u!